this way, you have your attention available to guide the seduction forward.Moreover, your mood is stress-free, which is a very attractive energy in men and women…
You now have the opportunity to get rid of a bunch of unhelpful, painful and ineffective habits and replace them with one simple new habit: being OK. When you can live like this, you’ll find that any bad mood or emotion flows through you rather quickly.
which brings me to the first major requirement of successfully seducing a guy: One of the most important pieces in the seduction puzzle is that you are having fun every step of the way and you don’t really care how things turn out.
This is a radical departure from the typical behavior of many women, which is to fixate on one particular guy, obsess over him, and dream up some fantasy future (and then bounce between optimistically hoping it will work out and fearfully worrying that your fantasy won’t come true).
I am not unattractive, but I don’t feel like I’m necessarily the hottest woman in the room either…
I think I can look good if I really put in the effort.